Every time you start seeing a new guy, you want him to introduce you to his allies. First of all, it means that he’s serious about you. Second of all, it means that he is proud of having you and wants to boast your extraterrestrial beauty and outstanding personality. And finally, his friends are a perfect instrument of manipulation. Seriously, all men are dependent on their friends’ opinion and always listen to their advice. Thus, if his friends think that you are a great person, they can possibly take your side when you are having some sort of conflict of interests. Sounds good, doesn’t it?
I think, everybody has experienced this smart feeling which is sharp and intolerable. It originates somewhere in your abdominal brain and you find it hard to breath. And there is one and the same thought repeating in your head: “What if he or she has someone else? What if he or she is not interested in me anymore?” A painful feeling, is no it? But everything changes if it is you who make someone jealous.
When your partner is jealous of you, you view it as the evidence of his or her love. We often try to increase this feeling in the others as their attention and affection is pleasant for us.
Many young couples and spouses realize that the quality of their living has declined due to the negative side of one or sometimes the both partners' personality. We talk about jealousy. On the one hand the people generally feel pleased when their partner feels jealous. It happens due to the wide-spread fallacy that jealousy is a sign of the fact that our girlfriend or husband loves and values us and is afraid to lose us. But that is not true actually. There are some other reasons and motives that stand behind the green-eyed monster. In the most cases it has nothing to do with affection, tenderness and real love.
One of the most common relationship problems refers to money. Sometimes it seems to you that your significant other has to support you financially. At the same time he has absolutely different point of view. He is sure that you should work and make money yourself. Well, of course his position is quite reasonable. Especially when you are not married. At the same time if something really bothers you then tell your partner about it. Try to be honest and sincere with him.
Try to be reasonable. Please do not be too impulsive and demanding. It never helps. At least he is not obliged to support you financially if you are just dating. Well, of course he could but it is not his obligation. And once again if you are dating.
The statistics of divorces looks far from the one reviving the spirits. There are various explanations to that fact. Each family has its own reason for break-up. As soon as the honeymoon passes by the gray weekdays take their turn. Many people find it surprising that their spouse ceases giving them presents and flowers, stops being tat caring and tender and gets more and more detached. They begin to think that their partner has been successfully concealing his or her real attitude before the marriage. But the things are much more complicated in fact.
It is really difficult for you to reconcile yourself to the idea that your significant other has been addicted to drugs. It is shocking and really terrible. Dealing with this situation please do not leave your partner. Probably you are the only one who is able to help him to get out of the situation.
First of all you need to find a clinic where your partner would get a proper treatment and special care. It is a must. Your partner would try to persuade you that everything is just okay and that he will be able to cope with it himself. Well, it would not work. First you believe in it and then you realize that it is simply impossible for him to deal with it. You should control the situation.
Nowadays the children step into adolescence a little bit earlier than several decades ago. It is very important to understand the process of communication and the peculiarities of teenager’s mind. If the parents of a teenager make mistakes while talking to their child that may lead to various problems in the future. While you child still stands in the childhood with one foot and considers you to be his best friend try to learn how to communicate with him. My daughter is 10 years old. She is pushing her period of adolescence that’s why I decided to ask her boldly how does she want me to act. Her answer was simple. Cunningly smiling she asked me to buy whet she wanted and to do what she wanted. But when she tried to answer seriously she told that some parents of her friends pile them up with the unnecessary information and demand too much from them.
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Tagged Adolescence, adolescents, child, Child Health, children, communication, Family, health, Home, Parent, parents, psychology, Relationships, teenagers
How often do you think of your eyes? If you do not give them any rest you may wake up one day with awful pain and will be able to think of nothing but it. However, it is better not to wait till this crucial moment and take care of your eyes in advance.
Eyes and allergy. Allergy cam hurt your eyes badly. It can be seasonal or common – in both cases your eyes begin to swell, redden and itch. In more serious cases the allergy leads to photophobia and the decrease of your eye sight. In general, there is only one principal thing you can do to protect your eyes – you should take antihistaminic medicine. Besides, it is necessary to define the source of your allergy and get rid of it if it is possible.
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Tagged allergy, artificial tear, Chlorination, Contact lens, contact lenses, corneal burn, eyes, Keratoconjunctivitis sicca, office syndrome, sun glasses, Sunglasses, Syndrome, syndrome of dry eye, Visual perception